Thank you for your question. The truth is that many people have no idea what product to try as there are just so many out there. The best advice I can give you is this: Come in to see one of our therapists at Skin Renewal. Let her do an in depth skin analysis with you. That way you have a starting point and she will be able to help you with recommendations that will best suit your skin. It could (from what you describe) be that your skin’s barrier is damaged and then we would need to get that restored and under control before you use any products anyway… if this is the problem, then any product you try is going to cause you discomfort, and therefore we need to fix this for you.